How much is that piece of ass worth to you? Take some time out of your day and figure out just how much money you spend on that tail. You might not like the results.
Investing in a piece of ass.
First off let’s piss off the women’s organizations. Women depend on men to survive. Yes, there are exceptions to every rule but on the whole women take a back seat to men. Men bring home the money and provide for their families. Which brings the question up, what are you paying for? When you break it down to the basic needs, the relationship benefits the woman more than the man. Look at your relationship as another business deal. You are paying for a service. If you receive bad service you will either not patronize that business or expect restitution in the form of a refund or discount. This sounds very crass but in the end, you have to determine if you have purchased a good quality product.
The problem women have.
If you are providing all the resources to the relationship, then the woman has no idea what the liquidity of your finances are. I will stress this, if she doesn’t do the books she has no need to know. I can hear the women screaming now. She has no concept of your bills and your income. This above all else determines your status and by proxy hers. If she constantly wants to go out to eat at expensive restaurants and blow money on clothes every time she feels fat, then she needs her own means of income. Your income is not disposable by her.
The price of ass.
What are the basic things you spend on your woman? Her birthday presents? Her anniversary presents? Her Christmas presents? Her valentine’s chocolate? Total it all up and divide by 12 to figure out how much of your monthly expenses are used to keep her happy so she can keep you happy. When you do this don’t forget to include going out to clubs and restaurants. A social drinker can spend up to $100.00 a night. Add the cost of providing her drinks. If she isn’t driving then more than likely she will out-spend you. She isn’t drinking the domestic beer. I have observed women in bars and most of the time its a mixed drink, wine or one of those fruity things with barely any mind numbing substance in it.
Friends you don’t need.
Watch out for this. A party buddy who will get you to buy the drinks while he hits all the ladies up is no friend. This leech may be your best bud but he figured out a long time ago the best way to afford that big titted blonde is when you pay for her to get drunk. Use the same rules as you do on the ladies, claim a light wallet. You shouldn’t have to buy everyone’s drinks unless its dirt cheap and you won the lottery. Even then I would caution against it.
Standing your ground.
Investing in a woman is a lot like taking care of your money. With your money you set rules and follow those rules. You make a budget, pay your bills and balance your pleasure with saving. Women are no different. You set the rules you are willing to live with. If she doesn’t like it she can hit the road or ride the road with you. Remember, you are the driver of any relationship you are in.